I know it can be very difficult to be happy and worry about
nothing when your current reality is so far from what you want and you seem to
be surrounded by problems you don’t know how to fix. However, hope and faith in a positive outcome
is the most important part of your answer.
You are totally capable of doing it but it will take some work on how
you think about your life and future.
You must stop falling into the victim mentality trap of blame and regret
and become the Designer of Reality you are fully capable of being. You want to know the meaning of life? You are
here to have fun becoming a creator and designer of new and improved versions
of Reality. Your mission and objective
when you got into this was to have an adventure learning to shape reality to
your wishes and in the process improving everything in your path. The stumbling block is accepting and
believing in your unlimited creative powers.
Reality is not out there somewhere – it is all in your heart and
mind. Take charge – it’s a lot more
satisfying and fun.
You might be thinking however that if it was not for some of
the jerks you are forced to deal with you could be happy. You don’t get off that easy because while it
is always easier going if you hang out with positive optimistic people,
ultimately it is always your decision as to how you feel and what you believe. What you think about everything is your
choice. Your life is a tale you are
weaving and conjuring into being based on past and present experiences. The key piece of the puzzle is that you never
need be limited or held back by anything that has already happened.
When you are feeling stuck in a place you don't want to be, it can be very useful to reclaim your Spiritual
foundation. Part of my start on a
metaphysical/Spiritual path many years previously had been when I listened to a
set of tapes called “All About Goals” by Jack Boland. I listened to the tape series as part of a
business success program but Jack’s message brought together my business and
Spiritual paths in a powerful way. I was
to find out that Jack Boland was a Unity Minister. Thanks to Jack, over the years I got involved
with Unity which is a non-denominational Spiritual organization based on the
teachings of Jesus. While you could not
say that it was non-religious, it was more about Jesus’ teachings as a
successful living system. It is
non-judgmental, welcoming to all and focused on positive expectation and
appreciation. Knock and the door will be
opened. You can investigate for yourself
if you are interested - visit http://www.dailyword.com/ as a good place to start. Since you will come to find that worry and
fear are the two biggest obstacles to your success, finding ways to eliminate
those feelings from your day is extremely important. One of the best ways to do this is to
starting your day with 15-20 minutes of meditation (which we shall discuss a
little further on). A dose of positive
thoughts from The Daily Word is another addition to your morning routine to
help you get your day off to a good start.
It needs to be pointed out though that it is still all on
you. Once when I was in a place I did not like, I got very involved with a local
Unity church in hopes of doing good and soaking up some positivibes. I went so far as to become President of the
Board of Directors of the church in my effort to get back on track. I think I made a contribution to the
organization and I did several talks that I hope were inspiring to some but for
me it was not what I needed. From a
philosophical viewpoint it was right on track but my feeling was that too many
of the people in the church were there to be “fixed” and I came to realize I
was one of them. Like looking to a
Priest or Rabbi or a Professional Counselor that can talk to you and share
ideas with you can be helpful, ultimately it comes down to YOU. It is you who must decide you are going to
accept that you are totally worthy and deserving of everything you want. You must make a decision to stop feeling
sorry for yourself and JUST START FOCUSING ON THINGS YOU ARE HAPPY ABOUT!
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